im sorry if i disappoint u for not being Alanis…but i related with ur question and thought i might have a suggestion….i myself went through a very rough relationship through grade school and after…so devastating that 6 years later i am still single by choice…eventually that choice drove me far away from confidence and left me a coward to my past…then i couldnt to talk to women and i forgot what it feels like to be in a relationship…my voice turned from deep and proud to a soft mumble..people are ALWAYS telling me to speak up lol …i get very bashful, i blush like strawberry and twist my body in odd ways when girls approach me…and i used to be the MOST confident Brady in the bunch…my point is to show u how making the wrong choices in your situation can affect u in the future as it does me…dont run or lock urself away…u are very cute in ur profile pic and it wasnt even much of a pose so u must be beautiful in person…beauty attracts more beauty…so if anything, the more u open up ur heart and keep showing ur true beauty, u will add to the odds of meeting someone as beautiful as u…does that make any scense? lol

Thanks for this message! What you said makes total sense. You need to be proud of who you are and not shy away. I am trying to date more and more and just be me! Thanks for sharing your story with me Good luck. You seem like an interesting person, so I am sure the right one is out there for you.

Thank you…I must’ve read over my message 100 times to make sure I got it right!haha..and I am trying my best to get out of this, all while accepting that these things take time…I COMPLETELY embarrassed myself here so I REALLY appreciate your feedback!..Good luck to you too…it’s kinda weird but nice to have total strangers rootin for ya!haha

Oh my goodness, how do you feel you embarrassed yourself on here?! Alanis site is one of openness and mutual support – so it’s great to be open and kind with each other. I really appreciated your message Take care! You seem like a sweetheart.

Oh my goodness, how do you feel you embarrassed yourself on here?! Alanis site is one of openness and mutual support – so it’s great to be open and kind with each other. I really appreciated your message Take care! You seem like a sweetheart.

thank you much!…you seem like a very warming person to talk with…you take care as well