I guess I should have explained about looking at it from the change (2) with 1 & 3 being the intro & extro versions of the self. Similar to defense mechanisms but much more deeply imbedded from our younger years. I like D.W. Winnicott. He covers some things Freud didn’t though Freud did cover variances of it. Check this quote ”A man should not strive to eliminate his complexes but to get into accord with them: they are legitimately what directs his conduct in the world.”
Really good thoughts Alanis. I dig.